How Hoeing Changed My Life: A Sex Positive Journey

Sorry mom. And dad. And various other authority figures who for some reason still view me as this innocent little angel who can do no wrong. But I’m also not sorry for speaking my truth and I realize that I’m doing myself and others a disservice by not sharing my life lessons. Now that the […]

I’ll Take Your Man

I wish this was one of those petty triumph stories where I come out on top after stealing some hating girl’s man. I wish. But it’s not. I was the one who’s man got took. First off, this is why you should never get caught up in a situationship, because that’s how you end up […]

Sis, You Deserve Better

** Content Warning: self harm, panic attacks. If these topics upset you or cause you distress, then you may want to skip this read. If you choose to continue reading, I have listed relevant resources at the end. ** I had a nightmare the other day while taking a nap and I’m still SHOOK from […]

Working at a “Breastaurant”

Once upon a time, I opened my dorm’s group chat to see if whether or not the girl who lives on the third floor was selling brownies this week and in the midst of my scrolling, I came across a post that said “Fun serving job position available. DM me if you’re pretty and outgoing”. […]

My #MeToo Experience

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** Content Warning: sexual abuse, sexual coercion. If these topics upset you or cause you distress, then you may want to skip this read. If you choose to continue reading, I have listed relevant resources at the end. ** When I came back home after my sophomore year in school, I was afraid of everything- […]

How My HBCU Failed Me (And hundreds of other students)

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This is probably the first controversial topic I’ve ever discussed on my blog, but it’s beyond necessary, especially now. I’ve talked about my issues with my previous university, but I’ve been vague about it, in fear of being retaliated against by both current and former students, but seeing as I have no more ties with […]

Blog Intro: My Story

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So the main question running through your head right now is why did you decide to start a blog? Well, in order for me to get to that answer, we’ll have to look back in time. Let’s rewind back a few years. In 2014, my life was as close to perfect as it could get. […]